On My Son's First Father's Day

Sunday June 19, 2011

On my son’s first Father’s Day, I find myself grateful for a parade of fathers.

First, there is his own—the one I love so. Tears spring to my eyes as I try to put words to how much he means to me.

He fathers so well. With love and kindness and humor. Most of all, with faith and integrity. His influences—his father and grandfathers—have played into who he is today.

And so the fathering continues, is passed down from one generation to another. I’m thankful for all the good things shared and for all the grace applied where men slip and fall. For none are perfect but one Father.

Can you see the parade? Ever grateful for that long line of dads, especially those with their eyes on the Father.

From Sons to Fathers

To my sons:

Yes, I know that only one of you is very close to fatherhood ... but you all will be one day, and I’m here to tell you that you’ll make GREAT dads! Here’s why:

You have a great model in your own father -- a responsible but fun dad who’s not afraid of hard work. He’s creative, determined, and as I’ve heard you all say often, “He knows everything and can fix anything.”

You know the Heavenly Father. He has filled you boys with love and compassion for others and a clear sense of right and wrong. He’ll be there for you to depend on, even when the going gets tough as it does for dads.

Each one of you has his own special gifts and talents, and you’ll use those as your disciple your kids. You are four different young men, not a duplicate among you – testimony to God’s creativity.

I know fatherhood may be years away for some of you (although very near for one!), but I want you to know I do look forward to the day. My prayer is that you’ll be as blessed by parenthood as your dad and I have been. By the way, your sweet Father’s Day words, cards, and calls made his day!